FAQ
Answers to common questions
What is the dress code?
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Cocktail attire. We'd love to see you dressed up, but most importantly, be comfortable! Think cocktail dresses, suits, or dressy separates. November in SF can be cool, so bring a light jacket.
Can I bring a plus one?
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Due to venue capacity, we can only accommodate the guests named on your invitation. If you received a plus one, it will be noted on your invite. Please include their name when you RSVP!
Are kids welcome?
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While we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration. We hope this gives you a chance to enjoy a night out!
Is there parking at the venues?
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There is a parking garage near City Hall (Civic Center Garage) and street parking near Penny Roma. However, we recommend rideshare or public transit to avoid the hassle of SF parking.
What time should I arrive?
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For the ceremony, please arrive 15-20 minutes early. We'll start on time! The dinner will follow, and we'll share transportation details closer to the date.
Will the ceremony and dinner be indoors or outdoors?
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Both events will be indoors, so no need to worry about the weather—though SF's microclimates can be unpredictable, so layers are always a good idea!
What if I have dietary restrictions?
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Please let us know in your RSVP! We want to make sure everyone has something delicious to eat. Just note any allergies or dietary needs in the form.
When is the RSVP deadline?
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Please RSVP by October 1, 2026. This helps us finalize catering, seating, and all the details to make the day perfect.
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We kindly ask for an unplugged ceremony—please keep phones and cameras tucked away so everyone can be fully present. We'll have a photographer capturing everything and will share photos with you after!
Is there a gift registry?
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Your presence is the best gift! If you'd like to contribute, we have a honeymoon fund. Check out our Registry page for details.
What if I need to change my RSVP?
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Life happens! If your plans change, please let us know as soon as possible by reaching out to us directly.
Who can I contact with questions?
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Feel free to reach out to either of us! You can email us at [your email] or text/call us directly.
Still have questions?
Don't hesitate to reach out! We're happy to help with anything we might have missed here.